Your child custody order can dictate your relationship with your child. As a result, you want to secure as much time with your kid as possible, which can be an uphill battle when you have a contentious relationship with the child’s other parent. While you can seek to secure more time with your child by pursuing a liberal custody agreement or litigating for sole physical custody, there may come a time when you find yourself on the other end of the battle.
If your child’s other parent seeks to modify custody in a way that severely limits your time with and access to your child, then you have to be prepared to fight back. Otherwise, you could see your relationship with your child suffer.
How can you effectively defend against a child custody modification request?
Your approach here is going to depend on the facts at hand. That said, there are some general strategies that you might be able to use in your case. Let’s look at some of them to see if they could be effective in your case:
- Present contradictory evidence: When the other parent seeks a custody modification, they’re going to try to paint you as someone who is unfit to care for your child. As a result, your parenting abilities and your character may come under attack. As hard as that can be to deal with, there may be evidence out there that you can use to contradict the other parent’s assertions. This can raise doubt in the judge’s mind as to whether the modification should be granted.
- Attack credibility: The judge in your case will only know the evidence presented to them. If you let the other parent and their witnesses get away with lying or misconstruing the facts, then the judge may rule against you even though doing so is unwarranted. Therefore, the burden is on you to show how certain testimony and witnesses are unreliable. You can do that by pointing out prior inconsistent statements, showing motivation and bias to testify against you, and even demonstrating that a witness has a criminal history related to untruthfulness.
- Go on the offensive: Even though you have to defend yourself against the allegations levied against you, you might persuade a judge to rule in your favor if you can show weaknesses in the other parent’s fitness. So, be sure to address their financial stability, physical and mental health issues, substance abuse problems, aggressive and violent tendencies, and criminality, if they’re applicable. Remember, the focus should be on finding an outcome that’s in your child’s best interests.
- Call experts: In some instances, a child is manipulated in a way that causes them to antagonize and distance themselves from their other parent. This is parental alienation, which can be challenging to prove in court. But if you have an expert who can speak to alienation or how certain parenting behaviors negatively impact your child, then you might better position yourself to beat the modification request that you’re facing.
Keep in mind that these aren’t the only options you have when it comes to defending against a modification requestion. Carefully think through the arguments you’re bound to face in your case so that you can develop the legal strategies that are best for your circumstances.
Build an effective child custody litigation strategy
Your child’s future and your relationship with them are on the line when a custody modification request is filed. That’s why it’s imperative that you do everything you can to craft well thought out and persuasive legal arguments. If that’s something you need assistance with, then think about what kind of support you need and can secure to be successful.
